“Safer sex is not just about protection from
unplanned pregnancies and sexually transmitted infections
(STIs). It’s also about making sure everyone involved…”.1
Umbrella
What may the Safer Sex Umbrella include?
Depending on the Source (DotS) this umbrella may include:
- Safe Sex
- Safer Sex
Definition
What is safer sex?
DotS the definition of safer sex may vary. The (Australian) Jean Hailes for Women’s Health (JH) definition is:
Tell or Not
Can you tell if a sexual partner has an STI?
In Safer Sex and Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs): How To Have Safer Sex the JH explain:
“Practising safer sex can reduce your risk of getting an STI. Anyone can catch an STI. You can’t tell if a sexual partner has an STI. A strong and healthy person may still be infected. Some people may not even know they have an STI”.3
Oral Sex
Is oral sex, safer sex?
According to the JH:
“Note that oral sex doesn’t reduce the risk of getting an STI. Common STIs such as herpes, gonorrhoea and chlamydia can all be transmitted through unprotected oral sex”.4
Period
Is sex during your period, safer sex?
The JH explain:
“It’s important to practise safer sex, even when you have your period. If you have unprotected sex during your period and your partner has broken skin (an abrasion), infections such as HIV or hepatitis can be transmitted to your partner. If you know you have an infection, it’s best to use a condom or dam when having sex during your period”.5
Guidelines
What are safer sex guidelines for women?
In Safe Sex Rules Still Apply: Safer Sex Guidelines for Women of All Ages the North American Menopause Society’s (NAMS) include:
- “Choose a partner carefully
- Discuss sexual histories with your partner, and don’t let embarrassment compromise your health
- Always insist that a male partner use a latex condom for genital, oral, and anal sex unless you are in a long-term, mutually monogamous relationship. Never use petroleum-based products like Vaseline or baby oil to lubricate condoms because they can cause condoms to break
- Don’t let a male partner’s erection difficulties keep him from using a condom. Dream up some erotic or stimulating methods for putting on the condom to keep his erection going. If all else fails, get a female condom
- Have an annual physical exam, including a Pap test and lab tests to identify STIs if you are at any risk
- If you are exposed to an STI or have received a confirmed diagnosis, urge any partners to be tested and treated
- Consider having both you and your partner checked for STIs before starting a sexual relationship”.6
Condoms
Is the use of condoms safer sex?
In Safer Sex and Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs): How To Have Safer Sex – Condoms and Other Barrier Methods the JH elaborate on:
It’s important to use a new condom or dam during sex if you change partners or change from vaginal to anal or oral sex. You should also use a new condom if you share sex toys.
Note, condoms or dams won’t protect against STIs if part of the body with infection is unprotected and there’s skin-to-skin contact. Also, some STIs such as herpes, genital warts and pubic lice may still be spread even if a condom is used”.7
Sex Between Women
What additional safer sex precautions may apply specifically to sex between women?
In Safe Sex Rules Still Apply: Safer Sex Guidelines for Women of All Ages the NAMS explain:
- Prevent transfer of any body fluids (including menstrual blood and vaginal fluids) into cuts, scrapes, or other openings
- During oral or vulva-to-vulva sex, cover your partner’s vaginal area with a dental dam or similar latex barrier to avoid contact with secretions
- Avoid sharing sex toys. Either clean them in hot, soapy water or use a new condom before switching users.
Keep in mind that oral sex with a partner who has a cold sore or fever blister can transfer the herpes virus to you if your mouth or genitals come into contact with the sore”.8
Older but New Relationship
When starting a new relationship after many years, what may we need to know about safer sex?
In Safer Sex and Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs): Safer Sex After A Long-Term Relationship the JH note:
Health Care Provider
What if I would like help with safer sex?
If you would like help with safer sex, it may be in your best interest to choose to talk to your health care provider about this. The NAMS reassure:
There is absolutely no need to suffer (or let your relationship suffer) in silence”.10
Health Topics A-Z
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Links
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- Australian and New Zealand Vulvovaginal Society: Patient Information
- Caredownthere.com.au [Care Down There, Australia]
- Condom Use
- Condom Use: How To Use A Condom
- Condom Use: How To Use A Dental Dam
- Condom Use: How To Use An Internal Condom
- Condom Use: Types of Condoms
- Condoms
- Condoms
- Contraception
- Essential Information: See Your Doctor If…
- Female Condom
- Internal (Female) Condoms
- International Society for the Study of Vulvovaginal Diseases: Patient Handouts
- International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health: Find A Provider
- Later Years (Around 50 Years and Over): Menopause and Post Menopause Health – Sexual Wellbeing, Intimacy and Menopause [+ Video: Menopause Is the End of Your Sex Life]
- Patient Information Leaflets
- Patty Brisben Foundation for Women’s Sexual Health: Guide To Sexual Health Providers
- STDs A To Z
- STI Awareness Week [April 14-20, 2024 United States]
- Safe Sex Rules Still Apply
- Safer Sex Guidelines
- Safer Sex [+ Video]
- Safer Sex and Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs)
- Sex and Sexual Health [Topics]
- Sex Activities and Risk
- Sexual Health
- Sexual Healthcare In Your Teens, 20s and Beyond
- Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Diagnosis & Treatment
- Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Symptoms & Causes
- Sexually Transmitted Infections
- Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs)
- Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs)
- Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs)
- Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs): About Genital HPV Infection
- Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs): About STI Risk and Oral Sex
- Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs): About Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs)
- Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs): Fact Sheets
- Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs): How To Prevent STIs
- Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs): STI Symptoms
- Sexually Transmitted Infections, All You Need To Know – Podcast
- Video Series-2022: Discussing Sexual Health Concerns With Your Health Care Professional
- World Association for Sexual Health
- WSHD 2024: Positive Relationships [World Sexual Health Day]
- World Sexual Health Day (WSHD) September 04, 2024]
- Your Safer Sex Toolbox
Sources
Where may I find the Sources quoted?
You may find the Sources quoted at:
Sources
- Safer Sex and Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs): Safer Sex. Last Updated: 03 June 2024 | Last Reviewed: 12 December 2023. Jean Hailes for Women’s Health https://jeanhailes.org.au/health-a-z/sex-sexual-health/safer-sex-stis/ Accessed: 06 August 2024
- Safer Sex and Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs): Safer Sex. Last Updated: 03 June 2024 | Last Reviewed: 12 December 2023. Jean Hailes for Women’s Health https://jeanhailes.org.au/health-a-z/sex-sexual-health/safer-sex-stis/ Accessed: 06 August 2024
- Safer Sex and Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs): How To Have Safer Sex. Last Updated: 03 June 2024 | Last Reviewed: 12 December 2023. Jean Hailes for Women’s Health https://jeanhailes.org.au/health-a-z/sex-sexual-health/safer-sex-stis/ Accessed: 06 August 2024
- Safer Sex and Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs): How To Have Safer Sex. Last Updated: 03 June 2024 | Last Reviewed: 12 December 2023. Jean Hailes for Women’s Health https://jeanhailes.org.au/health-a-z/sex-sexual-health/safer-sex-stis/ Accessed: 06 August 2024
- Safer Sex and Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs): How To Have Safer Sex – Sex During Your Period. Last Updated: 03 June 2024 | Last Reviewed: 12 December 2023. Jean Hailes for Women’s Health https://jeanhailes.org.au/health-a-z/sex-sexual-health/safer-sex-stis/ Accessed: 06 August 2024
- Safe Sex Rules Still Apply: Safer Sex Guidelines for Women of All Ages. North American Menopause Society https://www.menopause.org/for-women/sexual-health-menopause-online/reminders-and-resources/safe-sex-rules-still-apply Accessed: 06 August 2024
- Safer Sex and Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs): How To Have Safer Sex – Condoms and Other Barrier Methods. Last Updated: 03 June 2024 | Last Reviewed: 12 December 2023. Jean Hailes for Women’s Health https://jeanhailes.org.au/health-a-z/sex-sexual-health/safer-sex-stis/ Accessed: 06 August 2024
- Safe Sex Rules Still Apply: Safer Sex Guidelines for Women of All Ages. North American Menopause Society https://www.menopause.org/for-women/sexual-health-menopause-online/reminders-and-resources/safe-sex-rules-still-apply Accessed: 06 August 2024
- Safer Sex and Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs): Safer Sex After A Long-Term Relationship. Last Updated: 03 June 2024 | Last Reviewed: 12 December 2023. Jean Hailes for Women’s Health https://jeanhailes.org.au/health-a-z/sex-sexual-health/safer-sex-stis/ Accessed: 06 August 2024
- Talking To Your Health Care Provider About Your Problem. North America Menopause Society https://www.menopause.org/for-women/sexual-health-menopause-online/effective-treatments-for-sexual-problems/talking-to-your-healthcare-provider-about-your-problem Accessed: 06 August 2024